People fail for many reasons.
Many people fail for a multitude of reasons. But, in reality, there are only two simple reasons. One is that they do not know what they really want. The other is, if they do know what they want they do not believe they are worthy of having it. This stems from low self esteem and a lack of confidence, basically they have a negative self image.
A couple of problems with having a negative self-image:
- it feels like it is a fact
- it is easy to maintain
- they do not feel worthy
Just so you know, there is nothing wrong with failing. It is truly an indication you are doing something and it did not work. The real story comes from how you pick yourself up and move forward. You have to “Believe”. You have to accept that “You Are Worthy”! Success will come!
Your Capabilities.
Many people believe they fail because they are different than the people who succeed. So what do they do? They get tattoos, change hair color, get new hobbies, move in, move out, continually looking to see if what they did is enough. This list is endless. The sad fact is none of this will help. What you need to realize is that each person is as capable as the next person. There is nothing wrong with you. It is the strengths and weaknesses that are different in each person. What this means is that each person has to play the cards that suit them. The main thing you have to do is “Embrace what makes you”. Something that may help you is “Steps to a Positive Change“.
Your Belief.
Everyday you have to face your fears. Everyday you have to work 
at what you want. This means you have to explicitly and definitively know what you want. Everyday you have to maintain the belief you can do it and then you do it. If you do not believe in yourself and that you can do it then there is no reason to go through the motions. Without this belief in yourself you will fail. You have to believe. Keep it in your mind, or better yet, print the following “You are Worthy” on a piece of paper and tape it to your bathroom mirror or somewhere you will see it multiple times per day.
Losing Your Belief.
You have to remove the snooze button from your life. Rolling over and hitting the snooze button is an indication of procrastination. This represents the beginning of losing your faith in your capability of going after what you want. Eventually, if nothing changes you lose your belief that “you can get what you want”. You begin believing “you are not worthy”.
Planning and Execution.
Execution is what will get you what you want. However before you execute you must have a plan. This plan needs to consist of what you want, the goals you have to guide you along the path, and the steps or actions you will be taking. You can even include the technology. Keep in mind an Action without a plan will have you traveling in the direction to nowhere. As you make this journey, remember, “You Are Worthy”.
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To Your Success
